Your take on women in the Bible is inaccurate, especially in the New Testament, but you’ve provided your working, so fair enough. You cited Paul, and if taken as the whole counsel of the New Testament, I could see why you would reach the conclusion you do. Still, any Bible student would know that Paul was talking about a particular situation in Ephesus that was damaging the spread of the gospel, so he addressed it.
I can appreciate the desire for plain English to be spoken, so we all know what something says, and it is simple. But it is unrealistic to expect that. Consider, for example, the United States Constitution. Written only a couple of hundred years ago. In English. In one time and place, for one people. And it is less than 5000 words. You would think it would be clear what it says, right? Yeah right! (Extrapolate this thought out into numerous laws, rulings, judges, debate, etc.)
I’ve said my piece on the role of women. Jesus elevated women throughout his ministry, and in the early church women prayed in the assembly, prophesied, taught, and held leadership roles. It was remarkable, given the culture of the day, and way ahead of its time.
If there were more people like Jesus throughout history I think women would have received much better treatment.
As a data point for comparison, modern western secular society didn’t even grant the vote to women until 100 years ago. In terms of the freedom to run their own lives, and the ability to be represented in the making of the laws of the land and so on, women had no voice. It was appalling. And that was just 100 years ago. (I’m rounding that, as different western countries went through suffrage at slightly different times).
Updating it to today, women are still suppressed in numerous ways that are nothing to do with religion. Just limiting the observation to the workplace, women aren’t paid as much as men and are underrepresented in leadership roles in most if not all sectors. Modern western secular society very much has a blemished copy book on this issue.
Yet we are content to stick the boot in on an ancient text, and as it describes a time and place in history far removed from our own, we try to make it seem ridiculous, because… well, we are very enlightened now, aren’t we?
The debate on the role of women is just a microcosm of the wider conversation on faith and religious belief. Those issues will never be satiated in a tit for tat sort of go around on an Internet forum.