Moved here 13 years ago with two young children. Grew up in England. Married there. Wife American. She partly grew up in UK, father’s work was there. Got married in UK, both went to Uni there, kids born there, both worked there, but then moved here.
I had no real desire to become a US citizen but when Trump was elected I decided to do it, mostly for the purpose of maximum flexibility. If we chose to move back to the UK, or elsewhere, we could still return to the US if we wanted to, without all the hassle of another application process to establish residency.
Life has been fine, but we are a little concerned by the underlying political and divisive situation. But on the other hand it only affects us as much as we want it to. We live our lives, know the people we know, have our friends, do our thing, and it’s no big deal. There’s a sense in which you are immune to everything that is happening. At least somewhat.
But interestingly our daughter feels it much more keenly. Recent high school graduate. Not really sure what she wants to do in life. Clever, could do lots of things, but very unsure about America, despite being a dual citizen, and didn’t just want to slide into college here. So she went back to the UK, we have family over there, and she is having a great time, a little travel, while she thinks about what to do next. She is starting to talk like she wants to go to Uni over there and says she feels more at home over there.
As grown adults we get into our careers and lifestyle, but I half wonder if perhaps we are a bit more blasé about some of the issues that our daughter keenly feels?
I am well aware that half the country appears to be losing its mind, but for my daughter, it’s a lot more existential, and she is in the middle of trying to work out who she is and where she will live and so on.