OK. I’m not sure what you want me to do at this point. I don’t care if you have set up a network of spy camera’s in the nations toilets and you monitor all activity on a daily basis.
I’m not saying I’ve been sexually assaulted, by the way. I’m just saying I’ve had far more issue with men at urinals acting like idiots than I have with women in men’s toilets, usually the insecure ‘I’ve got a such massive knob, look at the effort it’s taking to get it out of my kegs routine’
If you don’t believe me, fine. I can’t make you and nor do I particularly care.
Let’s leave it. I suspect @RedSeven was reading it as more of an egregious ‘assault’ than I’m trying to describe. It’s no biggie. I was just trying to add a bit of colour to the general point that I’ve more reason to be annoyed at men in men’s toilets than I ever have women.
If you want details, I’ve had two occasions in clubs where a lad has stood way too close and made a huge deal of getting their cock out in a way that felt a bit weird and aggressively intimidating/threatening. Maybe checking me out to see if I respond? I don’t know. You just get an instinctive sense of that not being right.
You can’t say stuff like that doesn’t happen because in all your years working in pub toilets you’ve never seen that kind of thing. Have you thought that your presence might kind of discourage it?
But then there are more times than I can count where I’ve been stood at the urinals, and a lad has walked up a bit pissed, and done the ‘fuck me, that was heavy’ grunt as they get their cock out. That’s not intimidating or threatening. It’s just funny. It’s not that heavy mate
That’s not really my point though. What if I’d have done what I’m absolutely legally entitled to do and she reported me for flashing her? Typed the post just as the curtains opened so couldn’t make the above point.
I’d have laughed my head off at the idea. But……
I guess the disadvantage of getting nailed to the mrs at 16 was not spending many many nights in nightclubs.
Also Gym changing rooms. Anyone else noticed that there always seems to be one fella who is a bit too keen to wonder round stark bollock naked. A couple of weeks ago I was struggling with the lockers at a hotel gym and a bloke walked up and gave me a full tutorial while they were totally in the nip.
Kind of on the same point ; Do they still have separate changing areas for men and women at municipal swimming baths in the UK ?
One of the first things that struck me on moving to France that there was no such distinction at public swimming pools. Both changing rooms and showers are shared.
if you had ‘flashed her’ then you should be rightfully done for it, whether you were in the high street or a public toilets
if you went to the urinal, in a usual fashion that a man goes to the urinal, youd be fine.
whats weird, is i reckon if you took this EXACT SCENARIO to the ‘what makes a man a man’ thread or whatever it is called, youd present the same situation and have a completely different conclusion…
i can only imagine…in the right context, youd say ’ a gentleman should offer a lady the use of the bathrooms and should remove himself until she is done, even if i have the right to flop my gear out, why would i?, its not a manly thing to do.’
