Three parties need to agree any move. Buying club. Selling club. Player. (Not to mention various associated people like agent, family, etc.)
Letâs limit this to Ox.
Bought him from Arsenal. I could see the thinking. Playing in midfield, breaking through the lines, shooting.
He didnât tear it up for us, but he was starting to come to the boil when he got that bad injury. And that was after another couple of bad injuries over his whole career.
So, he missed a LOT of football, but we rightly stood by him, and nurtured him back to health.
When he came back, was he the same?
No. He was game and all, but had lost a yard of pace. And in addition, the team had moved on, so he was well down the pecking order. Arguably had we played him more he might have got to a better level. On the flip side, there werenât too many clamoring for us to play the Ox at the time either.
SoâŚ
Sell him? Yes, by all means. But remind me, what were the offers? I donât remember any. I canât imagine we would have been holding out for a stupid fee. But a modest fee, and someone else taking his wages off our books would very likely have seen a deal completed. Assuming of course, there was a team who wanted him on those terms, and he wanted to go.
In all likelihood, there wasnât. Or if there was, he decided to stay.
Train. Try to work hard and catch the managers eye. Enjoy your salary. And if you donât force your way back into his plans again, leave on a Bosman, where your leverage will be at its peak.
Every individual is different. If some arenât near the team, they will agitate to move, and nothing will stop them. Others will knuckle down and try to change the managerâs mind. Still others will bide their time, so their work, not make an fuss, and wait for a Bosman, knowing that that will maximize their leverage for their next move. Itâs a rare person who will act like the Chelsea fella mentioned above.